Renung2kanlah wahai lelaki….
Sebenarnya aku seorang yang baik hati…..Cuma kadang-kadang aku terlalu ego…selalu tak nak mengalah, asyik2 aku nak menang saja terutamanya bila bersama pasanganku…bukannya apa, aku buat smua nie untuk dia…sebab aku nak yang terbaik utk dia…aku tak nak nanti orang lain fikir aku tak pandai jaga pasangan aku. Bila aku marah dia bukan nak pujuk pun..malah, dia biarkan aku macam tu je..aku apa lagi..tambah panas la..tapi, dia buat dek je..tambah aku geram. Bila aku Tanya knpa dia tak pujuk aku…jawapan dia senang sj..”aku pujuk pun takde guna..awak tambah marah adalah..”. Bukannya apa..aku Cuma nak uji seikhlas mana dia nak memujukku..aku ni bukanlah jenis yang keras hati pun. Dah namanya perempuan “walau sekeras mana pun kerak nasi. Kalau di tuang air lembut juga akhirnya”. Aku sayang dan cintakan dia sepertimana aku menyayangi keluargaku juga…aku juga nak dia menyayangi dan mencintaiku sepertimana aku sayang dan cintakan dia. Tapi, dia slalu buat aku rasa seperti diabaikan…aku sungguh sedih..tidak pernah sekalipun dia ckp yang dia sayang dan cintakan aku. Selalunya aku yang nak kena tanya baru dia akan kata yang dia sayang dan cintakan aku…(macam dia tak ikhlas sj..). Bila aku nak bermanja dgn dia, dia slalu marah aku…dia kata aku mcm budak-budak…(sampai hati dia kata aku mcm tue …) aku nak juga rasa belaian sentuhan kasih dari tangan dia…aku nak sangat dia membelai kepalaku..bermain2 dengan rambutku…takkan aku nak bermanja dengan orang lain pula..dengan siapa lagi aku nak bermanja kalau bukan dengan dia. Kadang2 aku menangis sendirian..mengapa dia tdk pernah cuba untuk memahamiku…dah lama aku bersama dia..tapi, mustahil sampai sekarang dia masih belum dapat memahami aku..??. Aku sedih…terlalu sedih…:’( aku terlalu sayangkan dia….aku tak boleh bayangkan seandainya suatu hari nanti aku harus kehilangan dia. Oh Tuhan…betapa aku tidak sanggup utk melalui saat2 itu. Aku tahu dia juga sayangkan aku…smua tu aku tahu dari riak wajah hanya apabila dia cemburu..tapi, perkataan cinta dan sayangkan aku tu tidak pernah terluah dari bibir dia….skali skala aku pun nak dengar juga dia kata “sayang..saya cinta dan sayangkan awak…”..Dia selalu layan aku dingin..apa yang aku buat ada saja yang tak kena di mata dia….kadang2 tu setiapkali aku nak keluar jalan2 dgn dia…slalunya aku ambil masa 1jam utk berdandan…tapi, dia tak pernah puji aku walau sekalipun…malah, dia memarahiku..dia kata “nak keluar pun smpi nak bermekap berjam2 ke..?”…dia tak tau aku buat smua nie untuk dia…aku tak nak nanti org lain melihat aku comot begini seperti tak dijaga….aku nak kata apa lagi…terpaksa aku makan hati berulam jantung saja.
“Jangan simpan kata-kata cinta pada orang yang tersayang sehingga dia meninggal dunia , lantaran akhirnya kamu terpaksa catatkan kata-kata cinta itu pada pusaranya . Sebaliknya ucapkan kata-kata cinta yang tersimpan dibenakmu itu sekarang selagi ada hayatnya.”

'My bLoG Is mY DiaRY..mY LOve,My LiFe ANd mY sOuL .' -IVP- The pain that I feel so deep inside, The hurt, the shame, and all the lies. People that I live with thought they would be the people that I love, With the hate, the anger, the yelling, the teasing, and the madness. The more that I cry, the more I think there is no love......

Thursday, December 29
Thursday, December 15
I forgive you before you ask for it.
This poem is responding to "please forgive me".
Some distance lies between us now,
In all aspects of the word,
Over mountain tops, yet under clouds,
Your whispers are still heard,
Hundreds of miles in between,
My very self and yours,
Yet I can feel you here right by my side,
Like the times spent by the shore,
There's a light in you that always glows,
And I've seen it through dark brush,
Your natural guidance lifts my soul,
And leads me through untouched,
You're the sense of sun following the rain,
And the light that casts all day,
Come dusk, you provide me with some shade,
And steal my dreams away,
Feelings of betrayal, greed, defiance;
Traits I'll forget to know,
Of all this world's demons and tyrants,
They'll never stop your glow,
There's your hand again,
Slipping deep into my soul,
Steady stretching towards my heart,
To warm what I've left cold,
Your light casts down, in the form of rays,
To assist where I've been wrong,
And your voice echoes over the land,
Sounds like the sweetest song,
Your will to love, care and help,
Pure like your very soul,
I've been lost and found in your eyes before,
Don't doubt the fact I know,
Your innocent, sweet, and loving,
True, honest and sincere,
Your everything I've known you were,
Since the day God sent you here,
There's your hand again,
Turning my life's light on,
And I used to think it was I, reaching,
When it's been you all along...
Some distance lies between us now,
In all aspects of the word,
Over mountain tops, yet under clouds,
Your whispers are still heard,
Hundreds of miles in between,
My very self and yours,
Yet I can feel you here right by my side,
Like the times spent by the shore,
There's a light in you that always glows,
And I've seen it through dark brush,
Your natural guidance lifts my soul,
And leads me through untouched,
You're the sense of sun following the rain,
And the light that casts all day,
Come dusk, you provide me with some shade,
And steal my dreams away,
Feelings of betrayal, greed, defiance;
Traits I'll forget to know,
Of all this world's demons and tyrants,
They'll never stop your glow,
There's your hand again,
Slipping deep into my soul,
Steady stretching towards my heart,
To warm what I've left cold,
Your light casts down, in the form of rays,
To assist where I've been wrong,
And your voice echoes over the land,
Sounds like the sweetest song,
Your will to love, care and help,
Pure like your very soul,
I've been lost and found in your eyes before,
Don't doubt the fact I know,
Your innocent, sweet, and loving,
True, honest and sincere,
Your everything I've known you were,
Since the day God sent you here,
There's your hand again,
Turning my life's light on,
And I used to think it was I, reaching,
When it's been you all along...
Monday, December 5
I am sorry
Dear Hubby,
I just wanted to tell you how sorry i am for hurting you and breaking your heart. I accept all reposibility and i just wanted you to know that i never meant that to happen. You always meant the world to me and you still do. Nothing would make me happier than knowing that you are happy! Everything you did to keep me away..i deserved and i want you to know that i hold no grudge. I am thankful for it. In the end all that matters to me is your happiness and if it means i suffer then so be it. It is a price i will willingly pay! I cant tell you this personally so hopefull this will one day reach you at the right time. All that happened was my fault and i was insensitive. I am deeply and sincerely sorry and i am asking you for your forgiveness. I made a very big mistake. I am a complete fool. I had no sense. I am sorry!Please forgive my foolish words and girlish heart. Accept them as tokens of the emotions you inspire in me. I hope you find happiness and hold onto it!
Love always,
Pencinta Pena IVP
(Kota Kinabalu)
05 dec 2011
Thursday, December 1
Noktah cinta
Akulah
wanita yang pernah mencintaimu
memberimu harapan
dan pergi setelah mencalar luka
Namun
Maafkan aku kekasih
jika ku mengutip kembali
mekar bunga yang telah layu
Kuharap kau masih mampu mengukir senyum
menghadap hari esok
pada kelmarin yang gundah
kerna pintu bahagia telah terbuka untukmu
Biar jalur cintaku ini
selamanya menjadi misteri
akan kusirami agar ia terus mekar
dan wangi sepanjang musim
Tanpa bicara aku mengerti
cintamu bukan milikku lagi
dengan tabah kutadahkan doa
“semoga kau bahagia sayang...”
By: Pencinta Pena IVP
(Kota Kinabalu)
1 December 2011
wanita yang pernah mencintaimu
memberimu harapan
dan pergi setelah mencalar luka
Namun
Maafkan aku kekasih
jika ku mengutip kembali
mekar bunga yang telah layu
Kuharap kau masih mampu mengukir senyum
menghadap hari esok
pada kelmarin yang gundah
kerna pintu bahagia telah terbuka untukmu
Biar jalur cintaku ini
selamanya menjadi misteri
akan kusirami agar ia terus mekar
dan wangi sepanjang musim
Tanpa bicara aku mengerti
cintamu bukan milikku lagi
dengan tabah kutadahkan doa
“semoga kau bahagia sayang...”
By: Pencinta Pena IVP
(Kota Kinabalu)
1 December 2011
Saturday, November 19
Technical Support
I worked in technical support at Silicon Graphics about a year ago, and I was part of the group that was first in line to handle problem calls. Oh, joy. Being only eighteen at the time, my experience in the field of technical support was somewhat limited, but I could still handle my own.
Now, as you may or may not know, SGI sells top of the line computers used in many different industries. On average, they're about three times as expensive as personal PCs and are meant to be used by professionals in the industries they're used in.
Anyway, the following call came in:
Customer: "I just received an Onyx yesterday, and I tried to set it up today and it doesn't work."
Tech Support: "It just doesn't boot up?"
Customer: "It doesn't even turn on. I see nothing on the screen, and the fan doesn't even turn on in the back of the system."
Tech Support: "Is the monitor functioning? Is there a little green light in the lower right corner of the monitor?"
Customer: "Yes, there is."
Tech Support: "Ok, is the computer plugged in?"
Customer: (irritated) "Look, I think I know how to set up a system. I'm a college graduate, you know."
Tech Support: "Ok, let me finish typing up this report, and I'll send it off. You will get a reply within one business day."
Customer: (exasperated) "Thank you. Geez, I mean I paid a huge amount of money for this computer. The least you people can do it make sure it works before sending it to me!"
Customer: "I mean, to add to the poor quality control, you even sent me one extra power cord."
Tech Support: "One extra cord?"
Customer: "Yes, it looks just the one I used to plug in the monitor and computer, but that's all you sent to me. I have no use for this other one."
At this point, I thought I should inquire a little more...but use a bit of tact to do so.
Tech Support: "Sir, can you double check the serial number on the back of your computer?"
Customer: "On the back of the computer?"
Tech Support: "Yes, sir."
Customer: (sigh) "All right, all right, hold on..."
I heard a few muffled grunts as he crawled over his desk to see the back of the computer. He repeated the serial number from the sticker. I didn't bother to verify it.
Tech Support: "Thank you, sir. Oh, by the way, can you check to see if the computer is plugged in?"
Dead silence. I could just picture the man's face when he realized that the computer was never plugged in in the first place and that the "extra" power cord he was holding in his hand was for the computer. I didn't wait for a response from him. I thanked him for calling, hung up, and closed the case.
Now, as you may or may not know, SGI sells top of the line computers used in many different industries. On average, they're about three times as expensive as personal PCs and are meant to be used by professionals in the industries they're used in.
Anyway, the following call came in:
Customer: "I just received an Onyx yesterday, and I tried to set it up today and it doesn't work."
Tech Support: "It just doesn't boot up?"
Customer: "It doesn't even turn on. I see nothing on the screen, and the fan doesn't even turn on in the back of the system."
Tech Support: "Is the monitor functioning? Is there a little green light in the lower right corner of the monitor?"
Customer: "Yes, there is."
Tech Support: "Ok, is the computer plugged in?"
Customer: (irritated) "Look, I think I know how to set up a system. I'm a college graduate, you know."
Tech Support: "Ok, let me finish typing up this report, and I'll send it off. You will get a reply within one business day."
Customer: (exasperated) "Thank you. Geez, I mean I paid a huge amount of money for this computer. The least you people can do it make sure it works before sending it to me!"
Customer: "I mean, to add to the poor quality control, you even sent me one extra power cord."
Tech Support: "One extra cord?"
Customer: "Yes, it looks just the one I used to plug in the monitor and computer, but that's all you sent to me. I have no use for this other one."
At this point, I thought I should inquire a little more...but use a bit of tact to do so.
Tech Support: "Sir, can you double check the serial number on the back of your computer?"
Customer: "On the back of the computer?"
Tech Support: "Yes, sir."
Customer: (sigh) "All right, all right, hold on..."
I heard a few muffled grunts as he crawled over his desk to see the back of the computer. He repeated the serial number from the sticker. I didn't bother to verify it.
Tech Support: "Thank you, sir. Oh, by the way, can you check to see if the computer is plugged in?"
Dead silence. I could just picture the man's face when he realized that the computer was never plugged in in the first place and that the "extra" power cord he was holding in his hand was for the computer. I didn't wait for a response from him. I thanked him for calling, hung up, and closed the case.
Wednesday, November 16
Munajat Cinta
malam ini ku sendiri
tak ada yang menemani
seperti malam-malam
yang sudah-sudah
hati ini selalu sepi
tak ada yang menghiasi
seperti cinta ini
yang selalu pupus
tuhan kirimkanlah aku
kekasih yang baik hati
yang mencintai aku
apa adanya
mawar ini semakin layu
tak ada yang memiliki
seperti aku ini
semakin pupus
tak ada yang menemani
seperti malam-malam
yang sudah-sudah
hati ini selalu sepi
tak ada yang menghiasi
seperti cinta ini
yang selalu pupus
tuhan kirimkanlah aku
kekasih yang baik hati
yang mencintai aku
apa adanya
mawar ini semakin layu
tak ada yang memiliki
seperti aku ini
semakin pupus
Tuesday, November 15
History of facebook
In early 2003, Adam D'Angelo, then a Caltech student who had been Mark Zuckerberg's best friend in high school, had developed the experimental, rudimentary social networking website Buddy Zoo, that was used by hundreds of thousands of people before D'Angelo shut it down. That summer, Zuckerberg and friends who were also computer science students worked coding for the summer in Boston and discussed the implication of D'Angelo's website's success with regard to the future of social networking on the Internet.In the fall, Zuckerberg, returning for his sophomore year at Harvard, wrote CourseMatch, a briefly popular site that helped Harvard students figure out what courses their friends were taking;and then, on October 28, 2003, he wrote Facemash, a site that, according to the Harvard Crimson, represented a Harvard University version of Hot or Not.
That night, Zuckerberg made the following blog entries:
I'm a little intoxicated, not gonna lie. So what if it's not even 10 pm and it's a Tuesday night? What? The Kirkland [dorm] facebook is open on my desktop and some of these people have pretty horrendous facebook pics. I almost want to put some of these faces next to pictures of farm animals and have people vote on which is more attractive.
—9:48 pm
Yea, it's on. I'm not exactly sure how the farm animals are going to fit into this whole thing (you can't really ever be sure with farm animals...), but I like the idea of comparing two people together.
—11:09 pm
Let the hacking begin.
—12:58 am
According to The Harvard Crimson, Facemash "used photos compiled from the online facebooks of nine Houses, placing two next to each other at a time and asking users to choose the 'hotter' person". To accomplish this, Zuckerberg hacked into the protected areas of Harvard's computer network and copied the houses' private dormitory ID images.
Harvard at that time did not have a student directory with photos, and basic information and the initial site generated 450 visitors and 22,000 photo-views in its first four hours online.That the initial site mirrored people’s physical community—with their real identities—represented the key aspects of what later became Facebook.
"Perhaps Harvard will squelch it for legal reasons without realizing its value as a venture that could possibly be expanded to other schools (maybe even ones with good-looking people...)," Zuckerberg wrote in his personal blog. "But one thing is certain, and it’s that I’m a jerk for making this site. Oh well. Someone had to do it eventually..."The site was quickly forwarded to several campus group list-servers but was shut down a few days later by the Harvard administration. Zuckerberg was charged by the administration with breach of security, violating copyrights, and violating individual privacy, and faced expulsion, but ultimately the charges were dropped.
Zuckerberg expanded on this initial project that semester by creating a social study tool ahead of an art history final by uploading 500 Augustan images to a website, with one image per page along with a comment section.He opened the site up to his classmates and people started sharing their notes. "The professor said it had the best grades of any final he’d ever given. This was my first social hack. With Facebook, I wanted to make something that would make Harvard more open," Zuckerberg said in a TechCrunch interview.
On Oct 25, 2010, entrepreneur and banker Rahul Jain auctioned off FaceMash.com to an unknown buyer for $30,201.
In January 2004, the following semester, Zuckerberg began writing code for a new website. He was inspired, he said, by an editorial in The Harvard Crimson about the Facemash incident. "It is clear that the technology needed to create a centralized Website is readily available," the paper observed. "The benefits are many."On February 4, 2004, Zuckerberg launched "Thefacebook", originally located at thefacebook.com."Everyone’s been talking a lot about a universal face book within Harvard," Zuckerberg told The Harvard Crimson. "I think it’s kind of silly that it would take the University a couple of years to get around to it. I can do it better than they can, and I can do it in a week.""When Mark finished the site, he told a couple of friends. And then one of them suggested putting it on the Kirkland House online mailing list, which was...three hundred people," according to roommate Dustin Moskovitz. "And, once they did that, several dozen people joined, and then they were telling people at the other houses. By the end of the night, we were...actively watching the registration process. Within twenty-four hours, we had somewhere between twelve hundred and fifteen hundred registrants."
Just six days after the site launched, three Harvard seniors, Cameron Winklevoss, Tyler Winklevoss, and Divya Narendra, accused Zuckerberg of intentionally misleading them into believing he would help them build a social network called HarvardConnection.com, while he was instead using their ideas to build a competing product.
The three complained to the Harvard Crimson and the newspaper began an investigation. Zuckerberg used his site, TheFacebook.com, to look up members of the site who identified themselves as members of the Crimson. Then he examined a log of failed logins to see if any of the Crimson members had ever entered an incorrect password into TheFacebook.com. In the cases in which they had entered failed logins, Mark tried to use them to access the Crimson members' Harvard email accounts. He successfully accessed two of them.The three later filed a lawsuit against Zuckerberg, later settling.
Membership was initially restricted to students of Harvard College, and within the first month, more than half the undergraduate population at Harvard was registered on the service.Eduardo Saverin (business aspects), Dustin Moskovitz (programmer), Andrew McCollum (graphic artist), and Chris Hughes soon joined Zuckerberg to help promote the website. In March 2004, Facebook expanded to Stanford, Columbia, and Yale.This expansion continued when it opened to all Ivy League and Boston area schools, and gradually most universities in Canada and the United States.Facebook incorporated in the summer of 2004 and the entrepreneur Sean Parker, who had been informally advising Zuckerberg, became the company's president.In June 2004, Facebook moved its base of operations to Palo Alto, California.The company dropped The from its name after purchasing the domain name facebook.com in 2005 for $200,000.
Facebook is a social networking service and Web site launched in February 2004, operated and privately owned by Facebook, Inc.As of July 2011, Facebook has more than 800 million active users.Users must register before using the site, after which they may create a personal profile, add other users as friends, and exchange messages, including automatic notifications when they update their profile. Additionally, users may join common-interest user groups, organized by workplace, school or college, or other characteristics, and categorize their friends into lists such as "People From Work" or "Close Friends". The name of the service stems from the colloquial name for the book given to students at the start of the academic year by some university administrations in the United States to help students get to know each other. Facebook allows any users who declare themselves to be at least 13 years old to become registered users of the site.
Facebook was founded by Mark Zuckerberg with his college roommates and fellow computer science students Eduardo Saverin, Dustin Moskovitz and Chris Hughes.The Web site's membership was initially limited by the founders to Harvard students, but was expanded to other colleges in the Boston area, the Ivy League, and Stanford University. It gradually added support for students at various other universities before opening to high school students, and eventually to anyone aged 13 and over. However, based on ConsumersReports.org on May 2011, there are 7.5 million children under 13 with accounts, violating the site's terms of service.
A January 2009 Compete.com study ranked Facebook as the most used social networking service by worldwide monthly active users, followed by MySpace.Entertainment Weekly included the site on its end-of-the-decade "best-of" list, saying, "How on earth did we stalk our exes, remember our co-workers' birthdays, bug our friends, and play a rousing game of Scrabulous before Facebook?"Quantcast estimates Facebook has 138.9 million monthly unique U.S. visitors in May 2011.According to Social Media Today, in April 2010 an estimated 41.6% of the U.S. population had a Facebook account. Nevertheless, Facebook's market growth started to stall in some regions, with the site losing 7 million active users in the United States and Canada in May 2011.
That night, Zuckerberg made the following blog entries:
I'm a little intoxicated, not gonna lie. So what if it's not even 10 pm and it's a Tuesday night? What? The Kirkland [dorm] facebook is open on my desktop and some of these people have pretty horrendous facebook pics. I almost want to put some of these faces next to pictures of farm animals and have people vote on which is more attractive.
—9:48 pm
Yea, it's on. I'm not exactly sure how the farm animals are going to fit into this whole thing (you can't really ever be sure with farm animals...), but I like the idea of comparing two people together.
—11:09 pm
Let the hacking begin.
—12:58 am
According to The Harvard Crimson, Facemash "used photos compiled from the online facebooks of nine Houses, placing two next to each other at a time and asking users to choose the 'hotter' person". To accomplish this, Zuckerberg hacked into the protected areas of Harvard's computer network and copied the houses' private dormitory ID images.
Harvard at that time did not have a student directory with photos, and basic information and the initial site generated 450 visitors and 22,000 photo-views in its first four hours online.That the initial site mirrored people’s physical community—with their real identities—represented the key aspects of what later became Facebook.
"Perhaps Harvard will squelch it for legal reasons without realizing its value as a venture that could possibly be expanded to other schools (maybe even ones with good-looking people...)," Zuckerberg wrote in his personal blog. "But one thing is certain, and it’s that I’m a jerk for making this site. Oh well. Someone had to do it eventually..."The site was quickly forwarded to several campus group list-servers but was shut down a few days later by the Harvard administration. Zuckerberg was charged by the administration with breach of security, violating copyrights, and violating individual privacy, and faced expulsion, but ultimately the charges were dropped.
Zuckerberg expanded on this initial project that semester by creating a social study tool ahead of an art history final by uploading 500 Augustan images to a website, with one image per page along with a comment section.He opened the site up to his classmates and people started sharing their notes. "The professor said it had the best grades of any final he’d ever given. This was my first social hack. With Facebook, I wanted to make something that would make Harvard more open," Zuckerberg said in a TechCrunch interview.
On Oct 25, 2010, entrepreneur and banker Rahul Jain auctioned off FaceMash.com to an unknown buyer for $30,201.
In January 2004, the following semester, Zuckerberg began writing code for a new website. He was inspired, he said, by an editorial in The Harvard Crimson about the Facemash incident. "It is clear that the technology needed to create a centralized Website is readily available," the paper observed. "The benefits are many."On February 4, 2004, Zuckerberg launched "Thefacebook", originally located at thefacebook.com."Everyone’s been talking a lot about a universal face book within Harvard," Zuckerberg told The Harvard Crimson. "I think it’s kind of silly that it would take the University a couple of years to get around to it. I can do it better than they can, and I can do it in a week.""When Mark finished the site, he told a couple of friends. And then one of them suggested putting it on the Kirkland House online mailing list, which was...three hundred people," according to roommate Dustin Moskovitz. "And, once they did that, several dozen people joined, and then they were telling people at the other houses. By the end of the night, we were...actively watching the registration process. Within twenty-four hours, we had somewhere between twelve hundred and fifteen hundred registrants."
Just six days after the site launched, three Harvard seniors, Cameron Winklevoss, Tyler Winklevoss, and Divya Narendra, accused Zuckerberg of intentionally misleading them into believing he would help them build a social network called HarvardConnection.com, while he was instead using their ideas to build a competing product.
The three complained to the Harvard Crimson and the newspaper began an investigation. Zuckerberg used his site, TheFacebook.com, to look up members of the site who identified themselves as members of the Crimson. Then he examined a log of failed logins to see if any of the Crimson members had ever entered an incorrect password into TheFacebook.com. In the cases in which they had entered failed logins, Mark tried to use them to access the Crimson members' Harvard email accounts. He successfully accessed two of them.The three later filed a lawsuit against Zuckerberg, later settling.
Membership was initially restricted to students of Harvard College, and within the first month, more than half the undergraduate population at Harvard was registered on the service.Eduardo Saverin (business aspects), Dustin Moskovitz (programmer), Andrew McCollum (graphic artist), and Chris Hughes soon joined Zuckerberg to help promote the website. In March 2004, Facebook expanded to Stanford, Columbia, and Yale.This expansion continued when it opened to all Ivy League and Boston area schools, and gradually most universities in Canada and the United States.Facebook incorporated in the summer of 2004 and the entrepreneur Sean Parker, who had been informally advising Zuckerberg, became the company's president.In June 2004, Facebook moved its base of operations to Palo Alto, California.The company dropped The from its name after purchasing the domain name facebook.com in 2005 for $200,000.
Facebook is a social networking service and Web site launched in February 2004, operated and privately owned by Facebook, Inc.As of July 2011, Facebook has more than 800 million active users.Users must register before using the site, after which they may create a personal profile, add other users as friends, and exchange messages, including automatic notifications when they update their profile. Additionally, users may join common-interest user groups, organized by workplace, school or college, or other characteristics, and categorize their friends into lists such as "People From Work" or "Close Friends". The name of the service stems from the colloquial name for the book given to students at the start of the academic year by some university administrations in the United States to help students get to know each other. Facebook allows any users who declare themselves to be at least 13 years old to become registered users of the site.
Facebook was founded by Mark Zuckerberg with his college roommates and fellow computer science students Eduardo Saverin, Dustin Moskovitz and Chris Hughes.The Web site's membership was initially limited by the founders to Harvard students, but was expanded to other colleges in the Boston area, the Ivy League, and Stanford University. It gradually added support for students at various other universities before opening to high school students, and eventually to anyone aged 13 and over. However, based on ConsumersReports.org on May 2011, there are 7.5 million children under 13 with accounts, violating the site's terms of service.
A January 2009 Compete.com study ranked Facebook as the most used social networking service by worldwide monthly active users, followed by MySpace.Entertainment Weekly included the site on its end-of-the-decade "best-of" list, saying, "How on earth did we stalk our exes, remember our co-workers' birthdays, bug our friends, and play a rousing game of Scrabulous before Facebook?"Quantcast estimates Facebook has 138.9 million monthly unique U.S. visitors in May 2011.According to Social Media Today, in April 2010 an estimated 41.6% of the U.S. population had a Facebook account. Nevertheless, Facebook's market growth started to stall in some regions, with the site losing 7 million active users in the United States and Canada in May 2011.
Saturday, November 12
The Secret Book
The Secret has been passed down through the ages... coveted, hidden, lost, stolen, bought for vast sums of money, and known by some of the most exceptional people who ever lived: Plato, Galileo, Da Vinci, Beethoven, Edison, and Einstein, to name but a few.
The Secret book reveals how you can change every aspect of your life. You can turn any weakness or suffering into strength, power, unlimited abundance, health and joy.
Everything is possible, nothing is impossible. There are no limits. Whatever you can dream of can be yours, when you use The Secret.
Here some of the story who using the secret method:
Ask and you shall receive!! Really!!
By K. P.
from Athens, Greece
I am in a relationship with this great guy and all I had to do to bring him in my life was make believe I had already met him! I mean I really believed he was already part of my life!
Not only did I ask for the perfect guy, I gave very specific parameters as well! As I got to know him and saw he met all the standards I had set for my other half, I suddenly realised it: ASK AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE!! I hope you have reached that point of really believing because it is the fastest way to go where you want to be! If I had to share only one thing with The Secret and The Power fans, that would be it!
Although I had read The Secret and The Power several times and kept reading them on a daily basis I still hadn't taken it all in! Partly because it is SO simple that is easy to miss it, partly because it takes some mind training to shift to a high frequency and stay there no matter what.
After I had grasped the essence of The Power it only took me one or two weeks for my wish to come true! I hope yours takes less!! It is up to you really!
And another thing, THANKS Rhonda, THANK you THE SECRET team, I couldn't have done this without you.
About K. P. from Athens, Greece:
Over the past few years I had been facing certain problems in my relationships..
The Secret book reveals how you can change every aspect of your life. You can turn any weakness or suffering into strength, power, unlimited abundance, health and joy.
Everything is possible, nothing is impossible. There are no limits. Whatever you can dream of can be yours, when you use The Secret.
Here some of the story who using the secret method:
Ask and you shall receive!! Really!!
By K. P.
from Athens, Greece
I am in a relationship with this great guy and all I had to do to bring him in my life was make believe I had already met him! I mean I really believed he was already part of my life!
Not only did I ask for the perfect guy, I gave very specific parameters as well! As I got to know him and saw he met all the standards I had set for my other half, I suddenly realised it: ASK AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE!! I hope you have reached that point of really believing because it is the fastest way to go where you want to be! If I had to share only one thing with The Secret and The Power fans, that would be it!
Although I had read The Secret and The Power several times and kept reading them on a daily basis I still hadn't taken it all in! Partly because it is SO simple that is easy to miss it, partly because it takes some mind training to shift to a high frequency and stay there no matter what.
After I had grasped the essence of The Power it only took me one or two weeks for my wish to come true! I hope yours takes less!! It is up to you really!
And another thing, THANKS Rhonda, THANK you THE SECRET team, I couldn't have done this without you.
About K. P. from Athens, Greece:
Over the past few years I had been facing certain problems in my relationships..
Sunday, November 6
Wonder of Borneo
Kapalai is an island in Malaysia, known for its scuba resorts.
The island of Kapalai, just 15 minutes off Sipadan, was a beautiful island two hundred years ago, but now it is only a sand bar. Erosion has reduced the island to sea level and the village now sits on the edge of the extensive Ligitan Reefs. All of the buildings are on stilts resting on the underwater reef.
Location
Kapalai is situated a couple of hours from the east shore of Borneo in Southeast Asia. This makes it quite a remote location to reach, but there are daily flights from Kota Kinabalu, which is just less than one hour flight to Tawau.
Getting There
Kapalai Island is located off the east coast of Sabah / Borneo, Malaysia's eastern most state. Direct flights are available to Tawau and Kota Kinabalu on Sabah from Kuala Lumpur Malaysia and Singapore. The closest airport to Kapalai is Tawau, it is approximately one hour from Semporna jetty by mini van. Semporna is the speed boat departure point to Kapalai or nearby islands, Sipadan Island and Mabul Island.
Kapalai Island is located along the north - eastern beachfront of Sipadan Island. It is a 40 minute speedboat ride from the port of Semporna. Normally, when you book the dive packages, the tour operators will provide round trip transfer from Tawau Airport to Semporna and Kapalai Island. You have the option of arriving in Tawau by plane or in Semporna overland.
The island of Kapalai, just 15 minutes off Sipadan, was a beautiful island two hundred years ago, but now it is only a sand bar. Erosion has reduced the island to sea level and the village now sits on the edge of the extensive Ligitan Reefs. All of the buildings are on stilts resting on the underwater reef.
Location
Kapalai is situated a couple of hours from the east shore of Borneo in Southeast Asia. This makes it quite a remote location to reach, but there are daily flights from Kota Kinabalu, which is just less than one hour flight to Tawau.
Getting There
Kapalai Island is located off the east coast of Sabah / Borneo, Malaysia's eastern most state. Direct flights are available to Tawau and Kota Kinabalu on Sabah from Kuala Lumpur Malaysia and Singapore. The closest airport to Kapalai is Tawau, it is approximately one hour from Semporna jetty by mini van. Semporna is the speed boat departure point to Kapalai or nearby islands, Sipadan Island and Mabul Island.
Kapalai Island is located along the north - eastern beachfront of Sipadan Island. It is a 40 minute speedboat ride from the port of Semporna. Normally, when you book the dive packages, the tour operators will provide round trip transfer from Tawau Airport to Semporna and Kapalai Island. You have the option of arriving in Tawau by plane or in Semporna overland.
Friday, November 4
Kelly Chen - Ji Shi Ben (Diary) 's Lyric with English Subtitle Translation
翻看随身携带的记事本
Fan kan sui shen xie dai de ji shi ben
Flipping through the diary that I keep close to me
写著许多事都是关于你
Xie zhe xu duo shi dou shi guan yu ni
many things that I wrote regards you
你讨厌被冷落
Ni tao yan bei leng luo
How you are annoying and a pain to put up with
习惯被守候
Xi guan bei shou hou
You have a habit of being waited on
寂寞才找我
Ji mo cai zhao wo
For you only come to me when you’re lonely
我看见自己写下的心情
Wo kan jian zi ji xie xia de xin qing
I look at the diary entries I wrote about my mood at that time
把自己放在卑微的后头
Ba zi ji fang zai bei wei de hou tou
Putting myself down all the time
等你等太久
Deng ni deng tai jiu
I have waited for you for too long
想你泪会流
Xiang ni lei hui liu
I shed tears when thinking of you
而幸福快乐是什么
Er xing fu kuai le shi shen me
What does it feel like to be happy and fortunate?
爱的痛了
Ai de tong le
Those in love will feel the pain
痛的哭了
Tong de ku le
Those who feel the pain will cry
哭的累了
Ku de lei le
Those who cry will be shattered
日记本泪页页执著
Ri ji ben lei ye ye zhi zhe
Page after page I write in my diary that I will not give up no matter how difficulty it is
记载著你的好
Ji zai zhe ni de hao
I write about how good you are
像上瘾 的毒药
Xiang shang yin de du yao
You are like a drug that I am addicted to
它反覆骗著我
Ta fan fu pian zhe wo
He lies to me repeatedly
爱的痛了
Ai de tong le
Those in love will feel the pain
痛的哭了
Tong de ku le
Those who feel the pain will cry
哭的累了
Ku de lei le
Those who cry will be shattered
矛盾心里总是强求
Mao dun xin li zong shi qiang jiu
The dilemmas in my heart keep repeating itself over
劝自己要放手
Quan zi ji yao fang shou
I tell myself to let you go
闭上眼让你走
Bi shang yan rang ni zou
Close my eyes and let you leave
烧掉日记重新来过
Shao diao ri ji zhong xin lai guo
To burn my diary and start again
(04 Nov 2011)
Ombak Sabah (The Kinabalu Bamboo Music Ochestra)
This Orchestra was initiated by the Ministry of Culture, Arts and Heritage Sabah under the guidance of Mr. Chua Teck Lui in December 2000. It is the pioneer bamboo musical orchestra in Sabah. The objective of its formation is to preserve the use of bamboo musical intruments in today's society while uniting bamboo-craft enthusiasts and bamboo musicians. This group has now performed all over Sabah and Kuala Lumpur and there have even been performances in Jakarta, Korea and Japan. They emerged as champions in the national level "Ilham Desa" (loosely translated it means countryside inpirations) competition which was organised by the Ministry of Rural and Federal Development held on the 14th June 2007 in Selangor. The group has also produced an album entitled 'Muzik Tradisi Instrumental' which features instrumental traditional music.
The famed Kinabalu Bamboo Orchestra playing songs on various musical instruments crafted from bamboo, inckluding the Sompoton (Bamboo Aerophone), Bungkau (Jaw Harp) and and Tagunggak (Hollow Bamboo Idiophone). Watch various bands and solo bamboo musicians battle it out to win prizes for best act. Don't miss other exciting events such as the rampanau (bamboo stilt-walking) race, bamboo raft-building competition and performances by local artistes. It's all happening only at the Bamboo Music Festival in Tamparuli which will be held only once in every 2 years.
Ombak Society was officially registered under the ROS on 10 April 2002
Mission
To preserve the Traditional Culture of Sabah
To preserve the use of Bamboo Musical Instruments in today's society while uniting bamboo-craft enthusiasts and bamboo musicians
To encourage young generation to learn more about Bamboo Musical Instruments
To promote Traditional Music in state and national level
Contact Us Print E-mail
Contact Person:
Jane Thing
Telephone No: 088-782357
Fax: 088-782871
Contact Email:
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Contact Address:
Persatuan Orkestra Muzik Bambu Tamparuli (Ombak)
Kg. Kionsom Baru
P.O.Box 84
89257 Tamparuli
Sabah
Thursday, October 20
::BAGAIMANA MENYAYANGI SESEORANG HINGGA HUJUNG USIA::
1.Sayangi dia dengan hati, bukan dengan perasaan. Jika anda meletakkan sesuatu hubungan berdasarkan perasaan, ia hanya akan gagal kerana perasaan sentiasa berubah dari masa ke semasa.
2. Sayangi dia seadanya. Di dunia terdapat hampir 6 billion manusia dengan 6 billion personaliti. Dia sebenarnya seorang yang istimewa dan biarkan ianya kekal begitu. Jangan sesekali terfikir untuk mengubah apa-apa tentang dia kerana sekali anda mengubah, selamanya anda akan terus mengubah dirinya. Tentu anda masih ingat, anda terpikat padanya karena dia adalah dia. Maka, tiada alasan untuk anda mengubah dia untuk menjadi seseorang yang lain.
3. Sayangi dia sepenuh hati. Sesungguhnya dia telah banyak berkorban untuk anda. Dengan kelebihan yang ada padanya, dia berpeluang untuk menjalin hubungan dengan seseorang yang lebih sempurna tapi demi cinta, dia telah memilih diri anda. Maka, jangan sekali kali mencoba untuk mempermainkan keluhuran cintanya.
4. Hormati pendirian dan keputusan dia. Jangan anda merayu dan jangan membuat alasan supaya dia menerima cinta anda karena kelak, yang akan anda dapat darinya hanyalah cinta simpati dan bukannya cinta setulus hati.
5. Yakinkan diri anda akan keistimewaan dia. Dia adalah satu-satunya di dunia ini dan jangan mengharapkan kesempurnaan dari dia karena dia telah cukup sempurna semenjak anda mulai terpikat padanya.
6. Percaya akan dirinya. Sentiasa berbaik sangka padanya, jika kita juga menginginkan begitu darinya . Pastikan anda akan sentiasa memperlakukan diri anda pada tempatnya sebelum melakukan apa-apa. Jika anda sendiri tidak dapat menerimanya, apalagi dia.
7. Jangan berjanji menyayangi dia untuk selama-lamanya kerana selama-lamanya bagi anda mungkin akan berakhir keesokkan harinya, tapi berjanjilah untuk menyayangi dirinya seolah-olah setiap hari itu adalah hari yang terakhir untuk anda berdua.
8. BERCINTA dengannya adalah seperti memberi hati anda kepadanya untuk dilukai tapi kepercayaan itu penting. Percayalah kepadanya, nescaya dia akan melindunginya sepenuh jiwa dan raga.
9. Jangan sesekali meninggalkan dia tanpa alasan. Dia bukan hanya akan menangis kecewa dan kemudian meneruskan hidupnya seperti biasa, ketahuilah bahwa jiwanya akan mati secara perlahan.
10. Jangan cepat berbangga dengan diri anda, mendapatkan hatinya bukanlah satu kejayaan yang mutlak tetapi anugerah itu hanya layak anda peroleh setelah anda berjaya menyayanginya hingga akhir hayat. Ketahuilah, dia memilih anda adalah karena dia percaya bahawa anda adalah seorang yang jujur dan akan menepati janji. Anda telah bersusah payah dan berusaha dengan segala upaya untuk memenangkan cintanya, maka dengan itu haruslah anda juga berusaha untuk terus mencintai dirinya apapun keadaannya.
(IVP~20 October 2011)
Saturday, October 15
Wanita insan istimewa
cerita yg menarik, cuba baca ye....
Bila SUAMI balik rumah.... Dia jadi heran giler halaman umah berselerak, surat kat peti pos tak berambil, anak-anak tengah main korek-korek tanah kotor, baju compang-camping, penuh dengan tanah dan kotoran, rambut tak bersikat, tak bermandi.. Masuk ke pintu rumah lagi lelaki tu terkejut.
waaa... mana isteri ku...
Ruang tamu lagi teruk berselerak. Lelaki tu melaung nama isterinya.. Sepi tiada jawapan. Masuk ke dapur, sinki penuh dengan pinggan mangkuk tak berbasuh, periuk tak bercuci, mencari apa yang boleh dimakan tetapi tiada makanan yang dimasak. Masuk ke bilik air, baju belum berbasuh apatah lagi berendam. Lelaki itu cemas mencari isterinya. Dia bergegas ke tingkat atas melihat isterinya terbaring di atas katil sedang membaca buku.
fuuu.. lega..
“Awak sakit ke?” tanya lelaki itu. “Tak lah”, jawab isterinya ringkas. “Kenapa teruk sangat rumah kita hari ni?” Tanya si suami lagi sambil meletakkan tangan di dahi isterinya, kot-kot isterinya demam.“Wahai suamiku, semalam semasa kita bertengkar, abg mengatakan yang saya ini hanyalah suri rumah, duduk di rumah tak sepenat diri abg yang duduk di pejabat, dan abg sering menanyakan apa kerja yang saya lakukan di rumah yang menyebabkan saya merungut kepenatan kadang-kadang..
lelaki tu pun berfikir...
Kalau madam takde kat umah, alangkah tenteramnya hidup ini. Boleh buat ape yang kita suka. Boleh belengkar kat depan TV tanpa sebarang gangguan mental dan fizkal. Pendek kata, FreeDoMmmmmlah!! But hairan bin ajaib, when dia betul-betul pergi meaning “She’s Gone”’ aku plak trasa separuh mati. Sehari dua memanglah shiokkk, no one shouting from the kitchen for help, no o
ne to komen this and that, no one to criticize. Everything will be smooth…
hahaha... takde yg nak marah ku...
Tp masuk hari ketige, I felt something missing. Lebih-lebih lagi bila tuala mandi dah berbau ‘asshemmmm’, tak tau la mana nak cari yang baru. Colgate da nak abis, tak tau kat mana dia stock up. Air suam da habis, malas nk boil… Masuk hari keempat, rindu mula terasa...
Apabila rindu mencengkam, semuanya jadi tak tentu arah. Tengok TV citer best pon jadi tak best. Nasik bungkus feberite jadik tak feberite. Makan kat 5 star hotel jadik rasa macam makan kat kedai AA. Lebih-lebih lagi bila laundry basket da makin bertimbun ngan baju kotor. Toilet dah mula licin berdaki.. Lantai dah berbelak, tak dimop.. Every nite, very the lonely, baring atas katil nengok ceiling blindly.. bila lonely gini, baru lah rasa benar kesepian.
Jangan kata sebulan atau setahun, belum seminggu isteri takde kat umah, aku dah rasa separuh pengsan. Masa ni barulah sedar netapa pentingnya seorang wanita bernama isteri… So guys out there.. jgn buli isteri kite. Kalau boleh, tolong dia buat kerja rumah. Bukan dok depan TV every weekend baca paper. Apa ingat dia tu kuli ker?! Maid ker?!! Kan dia tu bini kita, best fren kita, sweetheart kita.. Ingat duit hantaran yang kita kasik dia masa nikah dulu cukup ker nak bayar gaji dia ..................................................................seumur hidup ???
ingat balik..
And furthermore, kan sama2 kerja carik rezeki, sama jugak lah buat kerja rumah. Kadang2 bila poket kita sesak, tak ingat ker dialah orang yang paling dekat terdekat kita nak kenyeng-kenyeng duit. Tak kesian ker nengok bini kita? Dah la satu hari keja kat office, balik pulak kena buat kerja rumah lagi… penat tau! Kalaulah aku diberi peluang jadik seorang wanita,… tak rela!!! So to all mums and wives out there, live will be meaningless without You mothers. Uwaaaaaaa!!
SAYANGI LA KAUM PEREMPUAN KERANA TANPA MEREKA ANDA KEHILANGAN SESUATU..
HARGAI MEREKA!!!!!
Dari ilham seorang lelaki.. “ Wanita adalah insan istimewa, biarkan mereka terus membebel, merengek atau mengilai seperti Pontianak. Seburuk-buruk perangai wanita, ia akan terus melekat di hati kita selagi hayat di kandung badan”
(15 October 2011)
Wednesday, October 12
♥ LOVE HER ♥
◘ Love her when she sips on your coffee or drink. She only wants t...o make sure it tastes just right for you :"3
◘ Love her when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.
◘ Love her when her cooking is bad. She tries so hard just for you.
◘ Love her when she makes you watch corny love dramas while the sport is on. She wants to share these moments with you. ♥
◘ Love her when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look herself best for you.
◘ Love her when she buy you gifts you dont like. She puts in all her savings for you. :">
◘ Love her when she cries with no reason. She actually had a thought of losing you.
Take time to make her feel special in every way you can & even if u dont,
"SHE'LL LOVE YOU ANYWAY"
coz it's never been about HER, its always all about "YOÜ".
Seriously guys are incomplete without "Ü"
and remember guys....
"Little love is the only key to a girl's heart.. ♥
(12 October 2011)
Tuesday, October 11
45 THINGS A GIRL WANT, BUT WON'T ASK FOR:-
Don't give up on love, because there is always soemone who loves you... even if it's not the person you were hoping for..
1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk... to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
...4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.
Are you remembering this?
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.
KEEP READING ..
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved.
Are you thinking of someone?
16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.
One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car - it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she’s your everything - only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her - if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT - so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!
WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US ..
26. Don’t lie to her.
27. DON’T cheat on her.
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants.
29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her.
30. Be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you.
ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER, BECAUSE IT’S IMPORTANT.
31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s upset, comfort her.
REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT ..
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED.
41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while you’re sitting on her.
You’ll never know when she needs just a little more love .. ♥!
(11 Oct 2011)
Wednesday, September 14
周华健- 爱相随 Ai xiang sui - Emil Chau
This is one of My favourite songs from Emil Chau...let's we sing together..enjoyyy..!!
Saturday, September 10
Ciri-ciri jejaka idaman:-
Setiap wanita pasti inginkan kebahagiaan dan kesempurnaan apabila di tanya mengenai pasangan hidup mereka. Namun, tidak semuanya akan sempurna seperti yang diharapkan.
Ciri-ciri seorang jejaka yang mampu membuatkan saya jatuh cinta:-
1)Saya boleh menjadi diri saya yang sebenar tanpa perlu berselindung dari pada si dia.
2)Saya inginkan si dia seolah-olah dapat membaca fikiran saya. Walaupun saya tahu, mana mungkin kita mampu membaca fikiran seseorang itu.
3)Saya boleh menjadi kekok dan kelihatan bodoh apabila bersama dengan si dia namun begitu, cinta si dia tidak sedikitpun berkurangan untuk saya.
4)Saya boleh bercakap/bercerita mengenai semua perkara dan si dia sentiasa OK.
5)Apabila si dia mendengar, saya tahu yang dia benar-benar mendengar segala apa yang ingin saya katakan.
6)Setiapkali saya amat memerlukan seseorang, si dia sentiasa berada di sisi saya dengan tangan yang terbuka.
7)Si dia boleh membuatkan saya tersenyum walaupun pada ketika itu hati saya sedang berduka.
8)Si dia menghargai segala kepercayaan yang telah saya berikan dan kasih sayang saya padanya.
9)Sentiasa membuat saya merasa bahawa si dia sentiasa berada di sisi saya tak kira dalam apa situasi sekalipun.
10)Mempunyai cara pemikiran yang sentiasa ke arah perkara yang positif.
11)Hanya dengan melihat wajahnya mampu membuatkan jiwa saya sentiasa berkobar-kobar.
12)Senyuman si dia yang mampu membuatkan hari-hari yang membosankan menjadi ceria.
By: IVP (Pencinta Pena)
(Kota kinabalu)
10/09/2011
Wednesday, August 17
Prosedur memeluk islam di Sabah Malaysia
CARA MEMELUK ISLAM DI NEGERI SABAH MALAYSIA
Siapakah yang dinyatakan sebagai ‘Orang Islam’
Seorang yang menganut islam
Seorang yang salah seorang atau kedua-dua ibubapanya pada masa kelahiran orang itu adalah Islam
Seorang yang dibesarkan atas asas bahawa dia orang Islam.
Seorang yang telah memeluk agama Islam mengikut seksyen 69 Enakmen Majlis Ugama Islam Sabah 2004.
Tafsiran Muallaf
Seseorang yang baru memeluk agama Islam di bawah seksyen Enakmen Majlis Ugama Islam Negeri Sabah 2004
PROSEDUR PENGISLAMAN (MEMELUK ISLAM)
PERKARA (1) SYARAT:
Hendaklah berumur 18 tahun ke atas.
Mereka yang berumur dibawah tahap yang disyaratkan (18 tahun) dan ingin memeluk agama Islam hendaklah terlebih dahulu mendapat keizinan/ kebenaran daripada ibubapa atau penjaganya.
Mengemukakan salinan Sijil kelahiran yang disahkan (bagi yang dibawah umur sahaja).
PERKARA (2) PERSEDIAAN:
Sebelum disyahdahkan ( diislamkan ) hendaklah memastikan perkara berikut:
Mengisi dan melengkapkan 2 keping borang yang disediakan oleh Jabatan Hal Ehwal Agama Islam Negeri Sabah.
Menyediakan 3 keping gambar terbaru ukuran lesen memandu atau paspot dalam bentuk berwarna / hitam putih (bersongkok bagi lelaki dan bertudung bagi perempuan).
Menyediakan / membuat surat akuan bersumpah yang sah yang ditandatangani dan dicop rasmi oleh Yang diPertua Mahkamah Sesyen / Pesuruhjaya Sumpah.
Menyertakan / menyediakan salinan asal Kad Pengenalan atau Paspot yang belum tamat tempohnya yang diperakui dari salinan asal.
Contoh Sijil Pengesahan Islam.
Contoh Kad Islam.
Kehendak-kehendak bagi pemelukan Agama Islam:
Seksyen 69 (1) menetapkan kehendak-kehendak yang berikut hendaklah dipatuhi bagi pemelukan sah agama Islam oleh seseorang : -
(1)(a) Orang itu mestilah mengucapkan Dua Kalimah Syahadah dalam bahasa Arab secara yang semunasabahnya jelas ;
(1)(b) Pada masa dia mengucapkan Dua Kalimah Syahadah itu, orang itu mestilah sedar bahawa kalimah itu bermakna
PETIKAN:-
Siapakah yang dinyatakan sebagai ‘Orang Islam’
Seorang yang menganut islam
Seorang yang salah seorang atau kedua-dua ibubapanya pada masa kelahiran orang itu adalah Islam
Seorang yang dibesarkan atas asas bahawa dia orang Islam.
Seorang yang telah memeluk agama Islam mengikut seksyen 69 Enakmen Majlis Ugama Islam Sabah 2004.
Tafsiran Muallaf
Seseorang yang baru memeluk agama Islam di bawah seksyen Enakmen Majlis Ugama Islam Negeri Sabah 2004
PROSEDUR PENGISLAMAN (MEMELUK ISLAM)
PERKARA (1) SYARAT:
Hendaklah berumur 18 tahun ke atas.
Mereka yang berumur dibawah tahap yang disyaratkan (18 tahun) dan ingin memeluk agama Islam hendaklah terlebih dahulu mendapat keizinan/ kebenaran daripada ibubapa atau penjaganya.
Mengemukakan salinan Sijil kelahiran yang disahkan (bagi yang dibawah umur sahaja).
PERKARA (2) PERSEDIAAN:
Sebelum disyahdahkan ( diislamkan ) hendaklah memastikan perkara berikut:
Mengisi dan melengkapkan 2 keping borang yang disediakan oleh Jabatan Hal Ehwal Agama Islam Negeri Sabah.
Menyediakan 3 keping gambar terbaru ukuran lesen memandu atau paspot dalam bentuk berwarna / hitam putih (bersongkok bagi lelaki dan bertudung bagi perempuan).
Menyediakan / membuat surat akuan bersumpah yang sah yang ditandatangani dan dicop rasmi oleh Yang diPertua Mahkamah Sesyen / Pesuruhjaya Sumpah.
Menyertakan / menyediakan salinan asal Kad Pengenalan atau Paspot yang belum tamat tempohnya yang diperakui dari salinan asal.
Contoh Sijil Pengesahan Islam.
Contoh Kad Islam.
Kehendak-kehendak bagi pemelukan Agama Islam:
Seksyen 69 (1) menetapkan kehendak-kehendak yang berikut hendaklah dipatuhi bagi pemelukan sah agama Islam oleh seseorang : -
(1)(a) Orang itu mestilah mengucapkan Dua Kalimah Syahadah dalam bahasa Arab secara yang semunasabahnya jelas ;
(1)(b) Pada masa dia mengucapkan Dua Kalimah Syahadah itu, orang itu mestilah sedar bahawa kalimah itu bermakna
PETIKAN:-
Mengucap Dua Kalimah Syahadat
Syahadat merupakan asas dan dasar bagi rukun Islam lainnya. Syahadat merupakan ruh, inti dan landasan seluruh ajaran Islam. [1]Syahadat sering disebut dengan Syahadatain karena terdiri dari 2 kalimat (Dalam bahasa arab Syahadatain berarti 2 kalimat Syahadat). Kedua kalimat syahadat itu adalah:
Kalimat pertama :
asyhadu an-laa ilaaha illallaah
artinya : Saya bersaksi bahwa tiada Ilah selain Allah
Kalimat kedua :
wa asyhadu anna muhammadan rasuulullaah
artinya: dan saya bersaksi bahwa Muhammad saw adalah Rasul / utusan Allah.
Wednesday, August 3
Untuk semua lelaki yang pernah kucintai..
Untuk semua lelaki yang pernah kucintai…
semusim yang indah telah berlalu
namun hati ini masih mengharap sandaran jiwa
tetap bertahan pada sedetik kenangan yang kian rapuh
Untuk semua lelaki yang pernah kusayangi…
kusedari aku hanyalah masa lalu mu
yang mereput di dedaunan kering
hanya kenangan setitis bahagia dan carik luka untukku
Untuk semua lelaki yang pernah mencintaiku
biarpun musim telah berlalu pergi
cinta ku tak akan pernah padam
cuma aku tak berupaya mencintai dan menyayangimu lagi
untuk ku semua lelaki yang pernah menyayangiku
ku tulis puisi ini dengan airmata yang semakin kontang
Dari lubuk hati dan naluriku yang tulus
ku doakan moga kau bahagia bersamanya...
Imelda Vanessa Patrick
(Kota Kinabalu)
3 Aug 2011
Tuesday, July 26
Perbezaan antara lelaki dan perempuan
Lelaki hidup dengan dunia sendiri manakala perempuan juga dengan dunia sendiri. Lelaki lebih ke arah kebebasan namun perempuan pula lebih ke arah kelembutan. Sewaktu awal perkenalan, mungkin masing-masing mampu ‘menipu’ dan menyembunyikan perangai sebenar namun setelah terikat antara satu sama lain, perangai sebenar yang jelik juga akan terbongkar dengan sendirinya. Mungkin, si lelaki dapat memahami si perempuan pada awalnya, namun setelah bertahun-tahun berkenalan, si lelaki mungkin akan berubah menjadi dirinya sendiri. Begitu juga dengan si perempuan. Ada saja yang tidak kena, silap sikit sahaja mesti akan bergaduh berminggu-minggu lamanya. Kenapa semua ini terjadi? Kerana pada awalnya, masing-masing bertindak ‘memalsukan’ diri sendiri semata-mata untuk mendapatkan cinta dan kesannya, pertengkaran berlaku 24/7!
Pada awal perkenalan, semuanya seperti dirancang. Keluar bersama, pakaian apa yang ingin dipakai, semuanya telah dirancang dengan teliti. Anda perlu ingat satu perkara sahaja, TIADA MANUSIA YANG SEMPURNA. Sebenarnya, perkara-perkara seperti ini dapat dielakkan sekiranya wujud sikap bertolak ansur dan saling menghormati antara satu sama lain. Apa yang kita perlu faham, perempuan dan lelaki memang berbeza. Jadi, tidak mustahil sekiranya wujud salah faham antara satu sama lain. Namun, segalanya dapat dikawal sekiranya si lelaki dan perempuan saling mengamalkan sikap terbuka – ‘open-minded’. Penting bagi sesiapa yang bercinta – anda tidak seharusnya mengharapkan pasangan kekasih anda berubah menjadi orang lain mengikut cita rasa anda sendiri sedangkan dia langsung tidak selesa dengan keadaan tersebut.
Kadang-kadang, pasangan yang sudah berkahwin bertahun-tahun lamanya pun mengakui bahawa masih terdapat rahsia dan misteri yang tidak terungkap antara satu sama lain. Tidak mustahil bagi pasangan kekasih yang baru berkenalan sekiranya mereka juga turut mengalami misteri dan rahsia yang belum terungkap. Maklumlah, hubungan masih setahun jagung. Pening, si lelaki menganggap si perempuan ini menyusahkan manakala si perempuan pula menganggap si lelaki ini sebagai hati batu.
Memang diakui, sehingga sekarang, terdapat segelintir lelaki yang tidak menyukai perangai si perempuan yang kononnya ‘gedik’ sedangkan si perempuan pula beranggapan bahawa itu bukan ‘gedik’ namun lebih ke arah manja. Kaum perempuan sememangnya mampu melihat dengan lebih meluas berbanding kaum lelaki yang hanya melihat sesuatu objek dalam satu masa. Justeru, tidak pelik sekiranya si perempuan mampu meluahkan segala perkara hanya dalam satu masa sahaja berbanding si lelaki yang hanya akan menumpukan perhatian terhadap satu objek lurus ke hadapan sahaja. Tidak hairan sekiranya si lelaki terlihat seorang perempuan seksi di hadapannya, dia hanya akan menumpukan perhatiannya terhadap si seksi itu sahaja tanpa mempedulikan keadaan sekeliling.
Kaum perempuan juga turut diakui mempunyai pendengaran yang lebih baik berbanding kaum lelaki. Buktinya, perempuan tidak dapat tidur dengan nyenyak sekiranya dia mendengar bunyi-bunyi seperti bunyi kipas yang berpusing sedangkan lelaki mampu tidur sehingga berdengkur. Oleh itu, pertengkaran akan tercetus gara-gara si perempuan mampu mendengar dan menyimpan data dengan baik namun sebaliknya terjadi terhadap si lelaki. Setiap butir perkataan yang dilafazkan oleh lelaki akan disimpan dengan baik dalam ingatan perempuan dan data-data tersebut akan digunakan oleh perempuan sebagai isu untuk mencetuskan pergaduhan.
Lazimnya, lelaki akan memendamkan perasaan tanpa menghebohkannya kepada orang lain. Namun, tindakan itu ternyata tidak disenangi oleh perempuan kerana bagi perempuan, sikap memendam perasaan hanya akan membuatkan jiwa semakin terluka. Jadi, tidak hairan sekiranya si perempuan akan meluahkan segala masalah yang terjadi kepada teman rapat atau orang yang boleh dipercayai. Kerana bagi perempuan, bercakap boleh meringankan beban yang ditanggung. Keadaan ini berbeza dengan lelaki yang lebih suka menyimpan segala masalah dan menyelesaikannya sendiri tanpa bantuan orang lain. Mungkin keadaan ini menyebabkan si lelaki berasa rimas dengan si perempuan dan sebaliknya. Bagi si perempuan, ‘sharing is caring’ merupakan perkara penting sekiranya masalah berlaku. Namun, tidak bagi lelaki kerana lelaki tidak suka orang lain memberi tunjuk ajar untuk menyelesaikan masalah. Keadaan ini menyebabkan si lelaki dan perempuan saling bertelagah kerana berlainan pendapat.
Perempuan tidak dapat melakukan sesuatu perkara dengan baik sekiranya hubungan percintaan tidak berjalan dengan lancar. Manakala bagi lelaki, lelaki tidak akan berasa gembira sekiranya kerjayanya tidak berjalan dengan baik lantas menyebabkan hubungan percintaannya turut menerima padah. Kaum perempuan berasa rimas melihat lelaki sibuk bekerja sehingga mengabaikannya. Namun, bagi lelaki pula, mereka benci melihat perempuan yang tidak mampu memahami kerjaya karier mereka. Malah, lelaki juga tidak suka melihat perempuan yang terlalu bergantung dengan orang lain. Namun, lelaki juga tidak suka perempuan yang terlalu berdikari. Hal ini mungkin akan menyebabkan lelaki tidak diperlukan sekiranya perempuan begitu berdikari. Kaum perempuan menganggap bahawa lelaki jarang dapat memahami perasaan dan jiwa mereka kerana sibuk bekerja.
Lelaki kurang menyenangi sikap perempuan yang gemar bercerita dan berkongsi masalah yang terjadi dengan orang lain. Lelaki menganggap bahawa perempuan tidak dapat menyimpan rahsia hubungan sekiranya berlaku masalah atau pertengkaran. Hal ini lantas menyebabkan lelaki dan perempuan bertengkar. Yang si perempuan beranggapan bahawa mereka perlu meluahkan perasaan dan tidak patut menyimpan perasaan yang terpendam manakala lelaki tidak suka perempuan berkongsi masalah dengan orang lain terutamanya perkara yang melibatkan lelaki. Hal ini terjadi mungkin kerana bagi lelaki, mereka tidak melihat konsep luahan perasaan sebagai satu cara untuk menyelesaikan masalah yang terjadi malah mungkin akan mengeruhkan lagi keadaan.
Kaum perempuan tidak suka sekiranya kekasihnya kerap keluar bersama rakan-rakan. Bagi perempuan, mereka hanya inginkan lelaki berada bersama mereka dan tidak mahu lelaki jauh daripada mereka. Mungkin perempuan menganggap lelaki yang sentiasa berada di sisi sebagai lelaki yang ‘gentle’ dan romantik. Tetapi, lelaki pula sudah terbiasa dengan aktiviti luar bersama rakan-rakan justeru hal ini akan menyebabkan lelaki berasa tertekan kerana tidak dapat melakukan aktiviti luarnya gara-gara bercinta. Keadaan ini juga turut menyebabkan pergaduhan tercetus. Lelaki menyukai perempuan yang tidak akan mempersoalkan apa sahaja yang ingin dilakukannya.
Kita memang sedia maklum bahawa kaum lelaki memang tidak mahir dalam bab menyusun ayat. Mereka hanya akan menyebut perkara yang terlintas di fikiran tanpa memikirkan perasaan si perempuan. Perempuan pula akan menganggap bahawa lelaki tidak pernah menjaga hati dan perasaannya malah lelaki juga tidak pernah mencuba untuk menjadi romantik. Lantas, hal ini menyebabkan perempuan mudah berkecil hati kerana mengharapkan si lelaki memujuk dan menjaga hatinya. Kaum lelaki memang tidak suka bercakap. Mungkin sepanjang perkenalan, lelaki memang gemar bercakap namun lama-kelamaan, sikap gemar bercakap itu akan berkurang. Kaum perempuan yang sememangnya diakui mempunyai naluri kewanitaan akan mula berfikiran negatif terhadap perubahan yang wujud dalam diri si lelaki. Oleh itu, kebanyakan lelaki mengakui bahawa mereka agak sukar untuk menipu perempuan sekiranya bertentang mata kerana perempuan sejak azalinya memang bijak membaca maksud yang tersirat. Kebanyakan lelaki yang ingin menipu perempuan akan menghantar SMS atau berbual melalui telefon bagi mengelakkan perkara sebenar diketahui oleh perempuan.
P/s:Copy & paste
Wednesday, July 20
Selalu ada untuk mu
Sayang ku....
Jangan benamkan cintamu pada memori duka semalam
yakinlah kerna aku akan selalu ada menemanimu di sini
Siang akan kuterangi hidup mu dengan cahaya cinta ku
Malam akan ku belai wajah mu dengan sentuhan kasih ku
Sayang ku...
Aku ingin menjadi seperti Bintang kejora
agar aku bisa menerangi malam-malam mu
Aku ingin mimpi indah setiap malam
agar aku bisa membawa mu ke alam fantasi dunia ku
Sayang ku...
pejamkanlah mata mu..
mimpilah sepertimana yang kau impikan selama ini
jadilah sepertimana yang kau inginkan
Aku akan selalu ada mengiringi setiap langkahmu..
Imelda Vanessa Patrick
(Kota Kinabalu)
20 July 2011
Jangan benamkan cintamu pada memori duka semalam
yakinlah kerna aku akan selalu ada menemanimu di sini
Siang akan kuterangi hidup mu dengan cahaya cinta ku
Malam akan ku belai wajah mu dengan sentuhan kasih ku
Sayang ku...
Aku ingin menjadi seperti Bintang kejora
agar aku bisa menerangi malam-malam mu
Aku ingin mimpi indah setiap malam
agar aku bisa membawa mu ke alam fantasi dunia ku
Sayang ku...
pejamkanlah mata mu..
mimpilah sepertimana yang kau impikan selama ini
jadilah sepertimana yang kau inginkan
Aku akan selalu ada mengiringi setiap langkahmu..
Imelda Vanessa Patrick
(Kota Kinabalu)
20 July 2011
Thursday, June 16
Mengharap esok seindah pelangi
Semalam telah ku cuba...
melupakan nostalgia lalu
melontar jauh segala luka di hati ini
namun bagai ada yang tak mengizinkan..
Hanya air mata yang setia menemaniku..
di kala hari siang melabuhkan tirai malam
aku tenggelam kelemasan dalam duka..
mengharap hari esok seindah pelangi
haruskah aku bercinta lagi..
di kala aku tidak bersedia menerima insan lain
kerna kini segalanya telah kabur
saat kau melangkah pergi meninggalkanku...
Imelda Vanessa Patrick
(Kota Kinabalu)
Friday, June 3
Suatu Penantian
Sesekali..puisi ku berlagu pilu
hati berbicara tanpa sepatah kata
hanya mata pena melakar pelangi senja
mengharap langit membiru
sebelum malam menjadi kelam
Biar yang datang seindah awan di langit biru
semerdu suara ombak membadai semarah cinta
mengharap pada bicara seindah kata hati
namun..seandainya takdir sudah tertulis
mengapa harus melawan arus
Duhai hati...
tak usah di nanti cinta yang telah pergi
mengapa harus menyiksa diri
bila hati sudah terluka..kecewa...
kerna yang tertera itu sudah nyata
bercinta tak seharusnya memiliki..
Imelda Vanessa Patrick,
(Kota Kinabalu)
03 june 2011
Monday, March 28
Weekly face expression
Jom!!kita buat kajian..expirasi muka anda hari-hari ada sama dalam gambar-gambar nie tak...??MiaAAKAKakakak!!!
MONDAY - Adeeehhh..monday mood la pulak...muka tak cukup tido nih..wakak!!
TUESDAY- Hah!!dah mula daaa..keja..kejaa..tengok muka pun daa macam nak makan orang..
WEDNESDAY- Busy!bussyyy..!!bussssyy..!!smpai tahap cipanzi nih!uwaarrgghh..stress!!
THURSDAY-Hurmm..blh laa...steady..steady..!!relexxx...
FRIDAY-Heheheee..malam jumaatt daaa...ada chance malam enjoy nih!
SATURDAY-Yeahhh..yeaahh!!hari nie half day..balik nanti continue zzZZzzz!!iikikkik!!
SUNDAY- Alaaahh!!esokk keja lg..nie yg aku tak suka nie..kan bgs kalo cuti lg..huhu!
MONDAY - Adeeehhh..monday mood la pulak...muka tak cukup tido nih..wakak!!
TUESDAY- Hah!!dah mula daaa..keja..kejaa..tengok muka pun daa macam nak makan orang..
WEDNESDAY- Busy!bussyyy..!!bussssyy..!!smpai tahap cipanzi nih!uwaarrgghh..stress!!
THURSDAY-Hurmm..blh laa...steady..steady..!!relexxx...
FRIDAY-Heheheee..malam jumaatt daaa...ada chance malam enjoy nih!
SATURDAY-Yeahhh..yeaahh!!hari nie half day..balik nanti continue zzZZzzz!!iikikkik!!
SUNDAY- Alaaahh!!esokk keja lg..nie yg aku tak suka nie..kan bgs kalo cuti lg..huhu!
Tuesday, March 8
Impian semalam
Sekian lama ku menyepi
membawa diri merentasi lautan samudera
bukan merajuk..
bukan kecewa..
hanya sekadar merawat duka lara
Pada kenangan lalu
ku buang ia jauh
ke dasar lautan paling dalam
kerna semua yang ada pada hari ini
adalah realiti bukan fantasi
Kini aku datang kembali
membawa impian semalam
ibarat mimpi dalam khayalan
pengalaman lalu kujadikan pengajaran
sebagai penentu hari ini..esok..dan lusa.
Imelda Vanessa Patrick
Kota Kinabalu
(8 march 2011)
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